The Situation
A team member leaves suddenly and you’re left wondering if your management pushed them out.
The Answer
Maybe—but don’t jump straight to blame. People leave for a mix of reasons: pay, progression, life changes, or team dynamics. Your job is to separate signal from emotion.
Start with facts: What feedback have they given recently? Any signs of disengagement (missed deadlines, quieter in meetings)? Compare their experience with the rest of the team—are there patterns or is this isolated?
Then look at your behaviours: clarity of expectations, frequency of 1:1s, quality of feedback, and how you handled pressure moments. Most management issues show up as a lack of clarity or inconsistent feedback rather than a single incident.
If possible, ask for a short exit conversation. Frame it as learning, not defence. You’re looking for themes, not absolution.
What to Do Next
- Request a 15-min exit chat focused on learning
- Review your last 3–4 1:1 notes for missed signals
- Check if others share similar frustrations
- Tighten expectations + feedback cadence this week
Common Mistake
Making it about you immediately and either over-apologising or becoming defensive.
Source: Common first-time manager scenario
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