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A stakeholder keeps marking everything as urgent — how do I manage this?

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The Situation

A business stakeholder frequently escalates requests as "urgent", disrupting planned work and frustrating the team.

The Answer

Treat this as a prioritisation problem, not a personality issue. If everything is urgent, nothing is.

Start by making work visible. Share the current priorities, capacity, and what will be displaced if something new comes in. Most stakeholders change behaviour when they see trade-offs clearly.

Have a direct conversation. Ask what "urgent" means to them — is it risk, visibility, or pressure from above? Often youll uncover a different problem.

Introduce a simple rule: urgent work requires agreement on what drops. This shifts the conversation from demand to decision-making.

Finally, reinforce consistency. If you accept every escalation without challenge, you train the behaviour.

What to Do Next

  • Share a visible priority list with current commitments
  • Ask what outcome or risk is driving the urgency
  • Agree a rule: new urgent work displaces existing work
  • Confirm trade-offs in writing (email or ticket)
  • Review patterns if it keeps happening

Common Mistake

Accepting every "urgent" request without forcing a trade-off.

How the Companion Helps

Supports structured prioritisation conversations. Tracks recurring stakeholder pressure patterns. Helps reflect on where boundaries need strengthening.

Source: Based on stakeholder management scenarios in delivery teams.

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